We are worthy of Calm and Peace

There are moments in life when time forgets to tick, when the world softens its noise, and all that remains is breath, sky, and soul.

I found one of those moments alone on a quiet beach, barefoot with the ocean licking at my ankles and the sky painted in a palette only the divine could craft—blush orange flames dancing across soft indigo clouds. It wasn’t just a sunset. It was a reminder that beauty asks for nothing in return but your presence.


Just the hush of waves and a sky that seemed to whisper, “You’re exactly where you need to be.”

In that sacred pause, I wasn’t carrying the weight of yesterday or rehearsing the worries of tomorrow. I wasn’t calculating my next step, striving for answers, or trying to fix anything about myself or my life. I was simply being. And somehow, that was more than enough.


Why We Struggle to Be Present

We live in a world obsessed with motion. Goals, notifications, expectations, noise. We often think that our worth is tied to how productive we are, how much we’ve healed, or how well we can predict what’s next. But the truth is, peace isn’t something we find in the future. It’s something we allow in the now.

That evening on the beach taught me that being still doesn’t mean being stuck. Being present isn’t passive. It’s the most active kind of surrender.


How to Practice Presence in Your Everyday Life

You don’t have to wait for the perfect sunset or a trip to the ocean to tap into that stillness. Here are a few ways I’ve learned to carry that moment with me, wherever I go:

  1. Breathe like it’s a gift
  2. Before reacting, before worrying, take one deep breath and ask yourself: “Where am I right now?” Most of the time, you’ll realize you’re safe. You’re okay.
  3. Look up more
  4. Whether it’s clouds in motion, tree leaves dancing in the wind, or city lights at night—remind yourself that life is always happening around you, not just in your head.
  5. Sit with silence
  6. Set a timer. Five minutes. Sit. No music. No goals. Just you and the air. It might feel uncomfortable at first. That’s okay. Stillness takes practice.
  7. Feel your body
  8. Wiggle your toes. Notice how your back touches the chair. These grounding moments reconnect you with the here and now.
  9. Let beauty slow you down
  10. Whether it’s the color of the sky, the laughter of a child, or the smell of rain pause. Let it move you. Let it matter.


Final Thought

That moment on the beach didn’t change my life. But it reminded me how to live it.

And maybe that’s the lesson we all need: that peace isn’t something you chase. It’s something you choose—one breath, one pause, one sky at a time.

So today, I invite you to do just that.

Look up.

Breathe in.

Be here.

Because here, right now, is enough.


Ray Reynosa

Ray Reynosa grew up on the Southside of San Antonio, Texas. At just 2 years old, he was homeless, cared for by his 14-year-old brother as they fled domestic violence.

Reynosa moved between homes, often unsure of where his family was, longing for stability and love. As a teenager, he faced isolation, rebellion, and academic struggles. But with the support of caring educators who saw his potential, he pursued higher education, graduating from the University of Texas San Antonio in 2019 with a business degree.

Now, Reynosa is dedicated to giving back, empowering the next generation just as others did for him. In 2023, he published Rocky’s Adventure, a children’s book inspired by his journey of resilience and growth.